Wednesday, December 17
Receiving this pic as a gift from someone who has known me for a rather long time, clarifies for me how much I have changed. Take a closer look toy boys. You may just find yourself in this very predicament. Worse yet, you may find yourself LOVING it!
Craving it. Needing it just as badly as you find yourself loving/craving/NEEDING Me. I do so love the way your neediness climbs, swirls, circles, climbs even more. Yum!
Wednesday, December 3
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Monday, December 1
Friday, November 21
"Now I want you to just pick a time you can drive out to see Me -- by the end of next month," said Mistress VanEsa. "Tell your boss. Don't ask him. Then, call me when it's all set. That's all. I don't want to hear any more excuses and reasons. OK?" "Yes, Mistress," responded the man. He felt a sense of relief pass over him. It seemed so easy when She suggested a course of action. He felt some courage come into his mind.
"Are you naked?" "No, Mistress." "Get naked -- now." "Yes, Mist...." "I have a treat for you tonight," said Mistress VanEsa in that affectionate, teasing way She had when playing with submissive men. She listened to the sounds the man made while undressing. She loved to hear the sound a belt buckle made as a man dropped his pants to the floor. She loved to hear the little grunts some of them made as they pulled off their socks, or a tight T-shirt. She imagined the Chicago man becoming naked. She had seen him undress for Her several times in person last summer -- "old leaking bull." Small. Some extra fat, not much. Embarrassed. Shy. He didn't seem sixty, though. She had given him his nickname after he had complained about his advancing age on his first visit. "Turn the lights out," She directed. "Lock your door. Kneel by your couch. Put your shirt on the floor in front of you. Tell me when you're ready." She waited a few seconds. She could hear the creak of the floor in the man's Chicago apartment. It thrilled Mistress VanEsa to hear and feel how easily She could control a man's movements and actions from over a thousand miles away. "I'm here, Mistress," said the man. "Naked. Kneeling. Awaiting your comm..."
"Do you know what I have on my bed?" She asked into the phone. "Do you know what I have on my bed right now?" "No, Mist...." "I have another naked man," She said, in Her softest, sexiest voice. "Don't you wish you were him?" "Yes, Mist...." "Do you know what I'm going to do to this naked man?" She asked, cutting Her Chicago submissive off again. "Do you know what I'm going to do as he kneels naked on my bed?" "No, Mis....." "I'm going to milk him!" She exclaimed. "Slow. Real slow. Does this excite you, 'old leaking bull'"? "Yes, Mis...." "And, do you know what you're going to do for your Mistress?" "No, Mist...." "You are going to listen to him as he's being milked," She teased. "He loves being milked. Makes lots of noise. And you're going to hear all of it, because I've put the other phone right down by his mouth. He's kneeling just the way you kneel -- ass high, head low." Mistress VanEsa could hear the heavy breathing of Her aroused Chicago submissive on the other end of the line as She described the scene.
"And, do you know what else?" "No, Mistress." "I'm going to listen to you masturbating into my phone," said Mistress VanEsa. "Into my ear." She laughed affectionately. She felt so powerful and in-control. "And, do you Know what else?" She continued. "No, Mistress," said the naked, kneeling "old leaking bull" in Chicago. Mistress VanEsa heard the man exhale loudly into the phone. She smiled before replying. "You're going to come when he comes," She directed. "Do you understand?" "Yes, Mistress, said the voice on the phone. "Not before." She warned. "Not after. But when he comes. When he comes, you come. Understood?" "Yes, Mistress," he replied. Mistress VanEsa thought She heard him wimper into the phone he held close to his mouth -- as he knelt in front of his couch in the dark. "Hard?" "Yes, Mist..." "So is he,"said Mistress VanEsa, with a final little laugh. Very......Ready to start?" "Yes, Mistress."______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ Ninety minutes later: "Very good!!", said Mistress VanEsa. "I'm proud of you! Right on time, too. Not as loud, but right on time! I'm proud of both of you." She laughed hysterically into the phone for a few seconds, then regained Her composure. "When you come out, you can switch places," She laughed. "I'll call him. You'll like that, won't you?" "Yes, Mistress," said the naked, sweating submissive in Chicago.
He sat on the couch holding the shirt he had ejaculated into a minute earlier. The man liked the way his Mistress had said "When" he comes out -- not "If." He liked the way She had said "You'll like that, won't you" -- not "You'd like that, wouldn't you." "I'll call You within a week with the dates I'll be out to see You, Mistress," said the man into the phone, boldly. "Excellent!", said Mistress Vanesa. "You're such a good boy." "Thank y....." "Now, tomorrow morning I want you to masturbate at least twice before you go to work," instructed the attractive Oregon Mistress in Her quiet but commanding voice. "Then, no more jacking off -- until I see you. I want you to store up your come until I can milk it from you. Tomorrow morning will be your last ejaculation until we see each other. Is that understood?" "Yes, Mistress." Then the sixty-year old Chicago submissive heard the dial tone.
Saturday, November 15
Friday, November 14
Wednesday, November 12
Tuesday, November 11
Make sure all of my toys are fully charged. Test them thoroughly. Make sure my FAVORITE toy (you) is fully charged. Test YOU thoroughly! Hmmmmm. I wonder if that means allowing you to cum. Veterans? Yes. Not yet a vet? Allow me to inspire you.
Friday, October 31
Monday, October 27
Tuesday, October 14
Someone asked me just the other day which topic/fetish is my favorite one to talk about. Hmmmmmm. Let’s see: femdom tease and denial? Now that one IS indeed fun, at least for me. And it will be fun for you too once you realize and come to accept as truth this little matter about you being properly denied. Which means forbidden to cum. Yes, forbidden. Left full, wretched and somehow still hungry for more. I am always so amazed at your inability to grasp the truth, your truth. To grasp onto the fact that I may just decide that today is not your day to cum. I don’t see it circled on the calendar, do you?
Thursday, September 25
RuPaul Joins Drag Queens' Fight Against Facebook
The social media giant is forcing users to display real names on their profiles, which isn't sitting well with the several hundred drag performers who had their accounts deactivated
Several hundred drag queens -- and other performers who had built Facebook profiles around their stage names -- had their accounts deactivated after they were reported for failing to employ their real identities.
Opponents of the rule now are receiving support from a formidable force: RuPaul.
"In showbiz, there's no such thing as bad publicity as long as they spell your name right," RuPaul tells THR. "But it's bad policy when Facebook strips the rights of creative individuals who have blossomed into something even more fabulous than the name their mama gave them."
Wednesday, September 24
and just maybe I'll share.
Check out my tumbler: http://mistressvanesa.tumblr.com/
and see a whole new angle on things! Your Mistress, Vanesa.
Sunday, September 21
Tuesday, September 2
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Saturday, August 30
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Friday, August 29
Thursday, August 21
Oh, my very favorite way to play with you!
You naked except for your leather collar &
your leash. The leash of chain that holds you
to me . . . even if I did not hold this chain
padlocked to your sweating neck, I know
you would not stray for you prayed to
find me and are unwilling to risk losing
me. Now, crawl! Get right behind me and
crawl! Keep your nose 5" from my pussy! Did I keep
you from sniffing my sweaty panties before? No!
But I did punish you did I not? I know, darling one,
you do enjoy your punishments, don't you? And on a
hot summer day I am especially certain that you will
be begging for your punishment. OK, over here
lover to this big old oak tree, right now!!
I have no patience left for you!
Roll over! Feel these leather mittens on your hands and feel your chain now, sliding down from your collar, through your thighs, through your genitals, rendering you helpless. A few pics below of me laughing at you!
Friday, August 1
Wednesday, July 30
Monday, July 28
When dressing in latex, it’s really important to lube up the latex to help it slip on easily. The thing about silicone lube is that even the slightest amount can spread as a thin film over a hard surface such as hardwood floors. So, if even a trace of lube is left on my foot as I step around, or if the bottom hem of my rubber pants touch the ground, it is enough to turn my house into a slippery danger zone.
The other problem with silicone lube is that it is really, really expensive. A 1/2 litre of SwissNavy silicone lube is $50 at Priape, for example. A keen rubberist (or even someone that just really likes sex with silicone lube) is likely to go through 1/2 a litre in no time at all. Fortunately, there is an alternative for you. Look on any silicone lube and you’ll find that the two main ingredients are Cyclomethicone and Dimethicone (aka cyclopentasiloxane or Dow corning 350). Dimethicone constitutes the main body of silicone lube, while cyclomethicone is used as a thinner to help spread the dimethicone. In Canada, you can pick up a gallon (3.8 litres) of cosmetic grade Dimethicone here for $47 dollars (it ends up being about $75 dollars after shipping and taxes). Unfortunately, cyclomethicone isn’t sold in Canada for various (silly) reasons. It’s listed as a health risk, but is still sold as a component in hair products, but not individually. The Dimethicone I buy has a thickness of 350cst, which is too thick to use alone, but if you can find a place that sells 100-200cst, it might be thin enough without the cyclomethicone.
Otherwise, you need an awesome USA friend like twohandstochoke to run some up to you :). just saying. The nice thing about this arrangement is that you can also mix the lube to your desired consistency. Just mix cyclomethicone into a bottle of dimethicone until you have reached the desired slickness.
If you live in the USA, you can buy both components from someplace like Chemistry Store, with each gallon costing about $40 before taxes and shipping. Since I’m not in the USA, I have to estimate, but it would cost between $120-$150 for a total of 7.6 litres of silicone fluids.
I think the savings goes without saying. The nice thing about this arrangement is that you can also mix the lube to your desired consistency. Just mix cyclomethicone into a bottle of dimethicone until you have reached the desired slickness.
Btw, I don’t have any shares in aquatech or chemistry stores. Now go make up tons of lube and have fun! Also, follow me now: http://mistressvanesa.tumblr.com/ and see a whole new angle on things.
Sunday, July 27
what the fuck are you talking about?)
Thursday, July 24
Friday, June 27
Wednesday, October 23
and politely request my one-way cam. No additional charges! Want to see mine too? Well, maybe you can.
See mine. (Additional charge does apply.) Meanwhile, enjoy this one from several years back!
Sunday, October 13
Which of you will be the one to claim your place as my secret admirer?
PS Found my mystery submissive hiding in the corn fields . . .(as of 10-15-13). . . Thank you, too. Just in time for Halloween!
Monday, September 23
Wednesday, September 18
Public masturbation not a crime: Swedish court
12 Sep 2013, 15:13
A man who openly masturbated on a Stockholm beach has been acquitted of sexual assault in court after it was ruled he was not targeting a specific person, with the prosecutor saying it's "okay" to play with yourself in public. Public masturbation not a crime: Swedish court The incident occurred on June 6th at the Drevviken beach when the man removed his shorts and began masturbating close to the water. He was subsequently charged with sexual assault. The Södertörn District Court has now acquitted the 65-year old in a judgement which stated that it "may be proven that the man exposed himself and masturbated on this occasion". However, the court added that no offence had been committed as the masturbating man was not pleasuring himself towards a specific person.
Friday, September 13
Wednesday, September 4
Wednesday, August 28
Yes, I am home from San Francisco.
And am so happy to be home again!
Sexy corset from Seattle trip of about
six weeks ago, hot skirt (Hottbonds)
found with the assistance of our own
Sera Miles, fishnets & red shoes pulled
out of playroom wardrobe.
Love it when an outfit comes together!
Makes me want to get YOUR situation all together.
You would love to be helpless under my powerfulness,
especially helpless under that metallic red skirt. Confess!
Wednesday, July 31
Monday, July 29
Friday, July 19
I am currently home and will remain home today, tomorrow and Friday. (i.e., July 3, 4 and 5). These 3 days are the best time for you to call me this week!
Saturday July 6 in Eugene, I will be available to catch your call on my cell.
Sunday July 7 - Thurs July 11 in Seattle. I'll be at ball park 6PM - 10PM three nights in a row: Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday. My phone will be OFF during baseball games! Other than that, however, I will be available for hello's and short appointments. You can also set short appointments via the S&M Inquiry Loveline (505) 255-9255
I would love for you to call me!
Friday, July 12
Friday, June 21
I will then be home for three complete days
(Wed., Th., Fri. i.e., July 3, 4 and 5). This would
be the best time for you to call me this week!
Saturday July 6 in Eugene, available to catch
your call on my cell, once again intermittently.
Sunday July 7 - Thurs July 11 in Seattle. I'll be at ball park 6PM - 10PM three nights in a row: Mon., T., Wed. My phone will be off during baseball games! Other than that, however, I will be available for hello's and short appointments. You can also set short appointments via
the S&M Inquiry Loveline (505) 255-9255
I would love for you to call me!
Sunday, June 16
Sunday, May 26
Saturday, May 11
Wednesday, May 8
Wednesday, April 17
Tuesday, April 16
Wednesday, February 20
Tuesday, February 19
Saturday, February 16
Get toes sucked
Tease, deny, torture
Assign individualized masturbation schedules
Control (your) breath with (my) spreading ass
Mail panties to (my) panty boys
Strip, blindfold, gag and mummify leaving (you) with only (your) sense of smell (of me)
Practice (on you) pantyhose bondage with old (my) pantyhose
Buy flat wooden hairbrush
Play strap-on games (with you) creating new levels of arousal
Dress the cross-dressers & cuckold the husbands!
Tuesday, January 29
Tuesday, January 15
Friday, January 4
Sunday, January 3
Friday, December 25
Monday, October 19
Tuesday, September 29
Tuesday, August 25
To stay in touch with my activities, my schedules, my personal experiences, follow this blog. Anchor yourself into it as the only portal into my life, as soon it shall be.
I am in the process of carving out my own niche here and will no longer be updating any other places you might find traces of me.
No, not good-bye. I enjoy what I do FAR too much for that.
Simply choosing real-time activities over cyberspace maintenance activities.
You are always welcome to e-mail me, firstname.lastname@example.org.
You are always welcome to enjoy updates to my website, http://mistressvanesa.com,
And as always, you are more than welcome to call me at my home telephone number: 541.440.6696
I guess I learned more at that fetish camp-out last week-end than I knew!
Good-bye unending numbers of hours on the computer.
Hello to unending hours of actual real-time play, especially in these next few months. Outdoor bondage is something to behold!
Thank you for following, for staying close. I look forward to all the new real-time adventures I now have the freedom to embrace. As for you, embrace your fetish, your pleasure, your adventure! I look very much forward to hearing all about it.
Friday, August 7
I want to take a moment to thank all of you who have touched my life. I am grateful for all that I have learned; for all that you have taught. Thank you also for following my blog, for following me on Twitter, and most of all, for picking up your phone just to say hi. In Dominance, Mistress Vanesa
Wednesday, July 29
I am also excited about seeing my daughter for the first time since her little belly has started to show!
I am especially excited to be going camping at Leatherwoods in August. For any of you in the Oregon area who might like to go, check it out on Leatherwoods.org As the dates for this event become closer and closer, I shall keep you apprised, and yes, of course you will be FORCED to listen to all of the details when I return home.
I am also very excited about my first published video slide show. For those of you who would like to view it, please send me your email addy and a short, polite request. Long emails are just more than I choose to deal with, so please keep brevity on your uppermost line of thought, or I might just think of this lovely nozzle I have, a good sized one for an email that is too good-sized! Send your request to Mistress Vanesa c/o email@example.com Who knows, the pictures I send to you in the form of a slideshow just might be new ones that you have never before seen!
Sunday, July 5
I have become fond of such transformation sessions and while that specific means of play might not appeal to you, I present it to you, as that is how I came to understand how Domestic Domination and Discipline work for me in my real life.
I want to grab hold of you while you are immersed in your “real” world and then I want to make you aware that without moving out of the room, without changing anything physical really, I change your reality and you find yourself at the beautifully pedicured feet of a Domestic Disciplinist, a Domestic Dominatrix, who will not only inspect every inch of my living room that I have required you to dust, every inch of glass I have required you to clean, I shall also be inspecting YOU. Are you spotlessly clean inside and out?
There is something so intimate about Domestic Domination. Think of it. When you are mine, in training, and you need punishment do you not think that you would be mortified if one of the neighbors witnessed it? Yes, there is something so very intimate about it that I believe it transcends all other forms of intimacy that might exist in a relationship between and Dominant woman and her submissive.
Thursday, May 7
Monday, April 27
The distance that has existed also fell away, on Saturday afternoon, as the young woman I call my daughter began to talk. As she talked, I realized that no one but mom could be the listener. I was honored to listen as the shards of secrecy dissipated, to listen and to listen . . . to hear more than I have heard in many years. I listened far into the hours of Saturday evening, not keeping other commitments I had made, not worried about what anybody would think of me for doing so, focused on listening to my daughter, aware that she was actually listening back when I spoke.
Visiting the waterbirthing center, meeting the doc and learning that DES ingestion by our mothers in the 50’ and 60’s to cure their morning sickness effects their granddaughters too, not just the daughters. PLEASE realize that DES was taken off the market in 1971 ~if your mother took it, please tell your doc about it. It is ESSENTIAL that they know that piece of your maternal history in order to keep you and your baby safe during the birthing process. Please feel free to call me should you need info about this, even if you did wind up being one of those I missed this week end!
Monday, April 20
Thursday, April 2
For me, it starts with the wisp of an idea floating across the front of my consciousness; then builds to a tease as I start reaching for that wisp, bringing it back close to examine, inspect, to blow breath into until it seems that every one of my deepening breaths is blowing life actively into the idea, the image, of play and my head begins to move slightly to my right, as my eyes close and I track my victim inside of my head, drawing them closer and closer to me until finally I open my eyes, refreshed in my spirit, my mind, energized to actively seek on a physical level the one I have focused on, the one who will not escape. The one who soothes one desire while awakening another. I do so love the interchange between bdsm play and lust!
Sunday, March 15
I believe that Domination need not be just fantasy.I believe that it is possible to accomplish your sexual and/or fetish goals. All you have to do for now is set your concerns aside for a few short minutes in order to concentrate on this posting. Concentrate while I address a question put to me frequently by many of you and recently by Leo of Massachusettes: "How may I better prepare myself for having a conversation with you?"
Please do remember that when you are looking to approach a Mistress, Leo, being respectful of her knowledge and status is always a safe place to start. The above question is an excellent example of the level of respect you would want to demonstrate.
Also, Leo, please do recognize that a Mistress's responsibilities sometimes weigh her down. Therefore, rather than offering yourself as a toy (Oh, I’ll do anything [sexual] you want, Mistress, I'll do anything you want . . .) think of something new. (When I hear someone begging to "service" the Mistress it makes me laugh out loud to think of her [or myself] as an automobile in need of an oil change!)
To better prepare yourself, Leo, think of yourself as a tool I might use, as opposed to a toy I might not. Stop and really think about that. And then offer yourself in a new and different way. Something as simple as "Mistress, it looks as though you could use somebody to do your laundry, wash your windows, cook your meals, clean your floors, update your checkbook and proof read your websites. I would be deeply honored if you would allow me to help you with any or all of that."
I know you would capture my attention were you to utter those magical words to me! Who knows? Maybe when you're done washing my windows, I'll have you wash my panties next!
If you are too nervous to approach verbally, then write. We Mistresses love to receive mail! Oh, yes, and one more thing on that: please, when you send pictures of yourself, make sure that you are clothed and in your element. Are you a golfer? Show me a pic of you on the golf course. A scuba diver? I’d love to see you in your wet suit! When you send pictures of your erection, and your erection only, please do know I simply toss it on the pile of hundreds that I have already received and quickly forget who it belongs to.
Set yourself up for success! Send genuine requests, well-written SHORT e-mails and appropriate pictures. We Mistresses want to know you just as much as you want to know us, and I for one, merely require respect for my knowledge and status, just as I will be respective of yours in turn.
If there is one thing that I would like for you to learn from this short it is for you to understand that you set the tone for your own success when you approach a Mistress. Try using these simple strategies as outlined above and let me know how they help you when approaching that Mistress who currently has you tongue-tied!
Sunday, February 24
My very special training sessions are based in operant conditioning theory. I find that this method of Female Domination achieves the most successful and the most long-lasting results. I also find that this method of discipline allows me to focus on you, one-on-one. While in training, you will be the sole focus of my curiosity, as well as of my perverse attention.
Bondage of a psychological manner is very appealing to me. The sounds of you bound to my soul, those sounds that I hear from you as you lose your ability to verbalize coherently, are exciting to me, for those sounds tell me that you are locked in an embrace with me, locked in a trance you are powerless to extricate yourself from. Your only release is with my permission.
Enter into my world of BD/SM and fantasy. Crossdressers, panty boys, novices and the guilt-ridden . . . you're ALL welcome to share with me your private, intimate, deeply held secret fantasies. Simply call me at my home, any time, day or night. 541.440.6696
Saturday, January 12
In Dominance ~ Mistress Vanesa